What to do when he loses his erection during sex

How should we react when a partner is unable to maintain an erection?

Between 40% and 70% of men may experience Erectile Dysfunction at some point. To put it in perspective, that’s nearly half of all men over 40! 

So, how should we respond when a partner has difficulty maintaining an erection?

This week’s episode of Sex Is Medicine answers a listener’s questions about navigating psychosomatic Erectile Dysfunction as a couple.

There are multiple reasons a man may experience Erectile Dysfunction. In otherwise healthy men, Erectile Dysfunction is most often caused by psychological factors, but at times may be an indication of a deeper underlying health concern.

Physical issues that can cause Erectile Dysfunction include:

• Cardiovascular Issues such as Heart disease, high blood pressure, atherosclerosis, and stroke.
• Metabolic conditions like diabetes, obesity, and high cholesterol.
• Hormonal imbalances, such as low testosterone or thyroid issues.
• Neurological disorders, including multiple sclerosis, spinal cord injuries, or nerve damage from surgery.
• Lifestyle factors like smoking, heavy drinking, or not getting enough exercise.
• Medical treatments, such as prostate surgery, radiation therapy, or certain medications.
• Injuries, like pelvic fractures or nerve damage.

Psychological causes of Erectile Dysfunction can include:

• Mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, or stress.
• Relationship issues, like conflicts, loneliness, or poor communication.
• Performance anxiety, or worrying about sexual performance.
• Medications which can include antidepressants, antihistamines, blood pressure medications, diuretics, pain relievers, and others.

In this episode of Sex Is Medicine, Devi and Alaina offer a step-by-step guide for addressing episodic Erectile Dysfunction during intercourse. i.e., what to do if he loses his erection during sex?

This episode of Sex Is Medicine answers listeners’ questions about:

• Navigating psychosomatic Erectile Dysfunction as a couple
• The impact of aging on sex and the best remedies for addressing vaginal dryness, thinning tissues, and low libido
• Are “Throatgasms” a thing?
• How to find your pelvic floor muscles
• The use of fantasy to recover from porn addiction

We invite you to sit back, relax, and enjoy this week’s episode of Sex Is Medicine Reboot!