4 Reasons to Learn (and Master) Semen Retention ASAP!
Tantric semen retention is the art of separating orgasm from ejaculation to facilitate the process of becoming a fully empowered, multi-orgasmic man. 💪🏽 This comes from being able to master your ejaculatory response. Having 100 percent choice over when and if you choose to ejaculate, while still accessing mind-blowing orgasms, is simply your birthright as […]
The Age of The Guru is Over
The Age of The Guru is Over…. This truth has rung in my heart like a bell since last summer when my Lama came to live with me. I learned many things while living with my Lama. I learned of the ongoing, persistent, and pervasive culture of misogyny and abuse that is inherent within the […]
Awakening Ancestral Wisdom with Tantra
It was late 2020, at the height of the Covid lock-down. I sat cross-legged on the carpeted floor of my bedroom, a warm cup of tea in my hands, watching the sunset over Lake Okanagan. I focused on my breath, inhaling deeply into my belly, exhaling slowly through my nose.  I was having my scheduled […]
The African Roots of Tantra
It is commonly accepted that the pre-Vedic roots of what we now call “Tantra” can be traced back several thousand years to an area known as “The Indus Valley”. Archaeological evidence indicates that the Indus Valley Civilization thrived along the Indus and Saraswati rivers from 3300 BCE to 1300 BCE. The Indus Valley was a […]
Ayahuasca+Tantra:Why Lineage Matters!
In May 2025, we recorded a Tantra Talks episode on the use of Ayahuasca with our Tibetan Buddhist teacher, Lama Tashi Dundrup. The episode was based on our collective personal experiences with Ayahuasca. Not ingesting Ayahuasca ourselves, but interacting with others who did engage with Aya and observing the results they experienced. We also discussed […]
Is It Normal Not To Feel Your Partner Inside You?
Welcome back to Sex Is Medicine, your number #1 resource for holistic sex education. In this episode, Alaina and Devi draw on their combined 27 years of expertise to answer a very common question: “Is it normal not to feel him inside you?”  So, here’s the scoop! While many, many women and PWV experience […]
Can same sex couples practice Tantra?
Welcome back to Sex Is Medicine, your number #1 resource for holistic sex education. In this episode, Alaina and Devi draw on their combined 27 years of expertise to answer a listener’s question: “Can you practice tantra as a same-sex couple?” The answer is “Of course!”, and here are a few things to consider: It’s […]
Queering Tantra with TK
How do you integrate the practice of Tantra without absorbing potentially harmful cis-heteronormative narratives? This episode is for radical anti-assimilationists, those who want to get past the trauma stories of linen pants, and those who know enlightenment doesn’t happen by turning a blind eye to pain, suffering, and the oppressed. Join Devi Ward Erickson and […]
The Power of Pegging
The Power of Pegging, Embracing Your Anus, Vaginal Orgasms + More!  It’s time again for another episode of Ask a Sexologist and we have a really juicy one for you TONIGHT! Find out what pegging is and how powerful pegging can be for your total pleasure! PLUS Devi, Karen, Sequieta, Rosie and Lucia answer […]